A high-touch hybrid mentorship mastermind for people socialized female who are ready to unpack who they were taught to be, unlearn what that has been costing them, and build a life, internally and externally, that is fully, unapologetically theirs.
You have spent enough of your life becoming who you were told to be.
You learned how to read the room, how to anticipate what everyone needed. How to be capable, dependable, impressive, accommodating, resilient, palatable, productive, loving, useful.
You learned how to survive systems, families, workplaces, relationships, and communities that often rewarded you for how little space you required.
And maybe somewhere along the way, you became very good at living a life that works for everyone else.
Sovereign is about building one that works for you, too.
This is an invitation to examine the roles, rules, beliefs, identities, and survival strategies you inherited and decide, with intention, what gets to come with you.
Not so you can become a “better” version of yourself. So you can become more fully yourself.
And from there, build relationships, communities, families, careers, and ways of living that reflect the world you actually want to inhabit.
This is for the person who has spent decades reading the room before they read themselves. The person who:
can tell you what everyone else needs before naming what they need
keeps finding themselves last on their own list
shrinks when you want to take up space
explaining decisions that don't require permission
saying yes when your whole body means no
manages other people's emotions before tending to their own
confuses hyper-independence with strength
believing rest has to be earned
mistakes exhaustion for evidence of worth
wondering whether wanting more makes you selfish, unrealistic, difficult, or ungrateful
silences their own voice in the face of harm, even while screaming inside
has done the therapy, read the books, set some boundaries, maybe even taken previous course of mine and still finds old patterns running the show
This is for you if you're tired of performing a life and calling it living.
It's for leaders trying to hold power without reproducing harm.
For partners, parents, children, siblings, friends, caretakers, and community members who want relationships that have room for the whole them.
For people who know a lot about themselves by now, but are ready for their lives to actually reflect what they know.
Because knowing better and living differently are not the same thing.
That's where Sovereign begins.
More than a program. An invitation.
Sovereign is an intimate liberatory education, mentorship, coaching, and community space for people ready to become active architects of their own lives.
Because liberation isn't only something we fight for politically or imagine collectively.
It is something we practice in our actual lives.
It is in what we choose. What we tolerate. What we refuse. How we love. How we lead. How we parent. How we rest.
What we dare to want.
Sovereign helps you recognize the forces that shaped you, examine what they taught you to believe, and consciously choose what comes next.
It teaches you how to world-build on the smallest and most consequential scale: your actual life.
And when enough of us begin living that way? We don't just change our own lives.
We change what becomes possible around us.
Imagine what becomes possible when your life stops being organized around everyone else's comfort.
What if you trusted your own wants enough to act on them? Stopped apologizing for having needs?
Could set a boundary without feeling like the building or your body was on fire?
Made decisions without convening an imaginary committee first?
Held power without shrinking from it or abusing it?
Built relationships, work, family, leadership, rest, and pleasure around who you actually are—not simply who you learned to be?
That is the work of Sovereign. Not reinvention. Reimagination.
What changes when this work starts working?
You trust yourself enough to make decisions without polling everyone you love.
You stop writing dissertations to justify a boundary.
You can feel guilt without automatically obeying it.
You become more discerning about where your energy goes.
You stop confusing being needed with being loved.
You recognize when fear is speaking without automatically handing it the microphone.
You hold power with more clarity.
You expect reciprocity in your relationships.
You rest before your body forces you to.
You engage in repair and restoration without shame or letting it mean anything about you.
You become more willing to disappoint someone else when the alternative is abandoning yourself.
And slowly, deliberately, with a whole lot of intentionality, your whole life begins to look like something you consciously chose.
This isn't a curriculum. It's a reclamation.
Most of us were never taught to ask who we might be without the conditioning. Without the perfectionism, people-pleasing and hustle dressed up as ambition. Fear dressed up as practicality. Silence mascaraing as grace. And self-erasure masking as love.
We were taught to be good. Palatable. Useful. Easy to love. Easy to manage. Foot soldiers marching to the beat of the socially oppressive drum.
Sovereign is where you stop managing everyone else's comfort and start architecting your own life.
The work moves through three interconnected phases
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Understand what foundation you're standing on.
Before you can build differently, you have to understand what built you.
Together, we'll examine the beliefs, identities, roles, and survival strategies underneath the life you're currently living.
Mindset & Vision
Excavate what you actually want underneath what you were conditioned to want, what you've been told is realistic, and what you learned would make you acceptable.
Limiting Beliefs
Identify the stories running your life without your consent, where they came from, what they protected you from, and what they're costing you now.
Gendered Socialization
Examine how expectations like “good girl,” “good wife,” “good mother,” “good employee,” and “good woman” are built into people socialized female across gender identities and decide which rules no longer belong to you
Identity & Life Structures
Relationships. Career. Money. Family. Pleasure. Rest. Ambition. Care.
We look at the architecture of your life with honesty instead of shame.
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Change how you move through the world.
Awareness matters. But awareness without practice simply makes you very articulate about why you're miserable. This phase is about disrupting the patterns in real time.
Power & Power Dynamics
Learn to recognize power, understand your relationship to it, and hold your own without shrinking, dominating, apologizing, or pretending power doesn't exist.
Perfectionism, People-Pleasing & Hustle
Recognize these patterns for what they often are: socially rewarded survival strategies. Then build alternatives that don't require your self-abandonment.
Fear, Safety & the Nervous System
Because you cannot intellect your way into liberation while your body believes every boundary, risk, conflict, or disappointment is a threat.
We work with fear rather than letting it secretly run the meeting.
Boundaries
Not walls. Not punishment. Not “cut everybody off” culture.
Boundaries as clarity, as protection, as the architecture that allows your relationships and your life to actually hold you.
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Turn insight into a life.
Eventually, we have to stop merely understanding ourselves and start choosing differently.
This is where the pieces come together.
Architecting Possibility
Learn how to imagine, choose, build, evaluate, and evolve a liberated life without burning yourself out creating it.
Reclaiming Personal Sovereignty
Decide for yourself what success, partnership, family, leadership, pleasure, rest, enough etc means.
What your one wild, finite life is going to look like.
Getting Out of Your Own Way
Because insight without implementation is just a very expensive journal entry.
We close the gap between what you know and what you practice.
This work brings everything I've spent years teaching into one room. Sovereign draws from Protect Your Peace, ReClaim!, Embodying Liberation, Dismantle (etc, etc, etc) and my broader body of work around liberation, power, identity, boundaries, leadership, and possibility.
But this isn't a greatest-hits course. We apply the work to your specific life:
Relationships ✶ Habits ✶ Patterns ✶ Questions ✶ Contradictions ✶ Desires ✶ Decisions
In real time. In community. With me walking your path beside you.
Because you can't do this alone. Honestly, no one in the history of liberation has.
Some things can only be transformed in relationship. You need mirrors. Witnesses. People practicing alongside you. A place where you don't have to translate the complexity of wanting liberation while simultaneously being shaped by systems you did not choose.
Sovereign is part mastermind, part liberatory education space, part coaching container, and part community of practice.
Structured learning gives you the framework. Live coaching helps you apply it. Community gives you somewhere to practice becoming.
Your liberation is not homework, it is your life, evolving and happening in real time!
The Details
Structure
Hybrid self-paced & live guidance
Sovereign is designed to meet you where you are at and what you need. For some that means following the guided curriculum with journaling prompts and exercises, for others that means true mastermind style where you bring exactly what is real for you in the moment and examine it accordingly.
While I encourage everyone to engage with the curriculum and journaling, it is not a requirement.
This structure is here to serve you, you are not in service to the structure.
These aren't lectures.
I coach. Unpack. Troubleshoot. Guide. Educate. Hold Space
Bring everything that comes up for you as you worked through the curriculum or as you experience your everyday life. Bring the boundary you're avoiding, the relationship dynamic you can't name, the leadership challenge, the decision you keep circling, or the pattern you're finally ready to interrupt.
Live group calls
Private Community Chat
A digital group chat on Telegram.
This is intended to be a space for conversation, support, questions, reflection, and accountability between calls.
Because breakthroughs have notoriously poor respect for our own timing and scheduled live calls.
I will be in there with you but highly encourage y’all to support, witness each other and practice reciprocity and showing up in community!
Optional 1:1 support: Access to purchase private 1:1 sessions when something requires deeper individual attention.
Logistics
Dates
Program length: 1 year. October 13th, 2026 - September 28th, 2027.
Live calls:
Twice a month on the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of the month.
4pm pt/7pm et
Calls will be 60-75 minutes depending on total enrollment.
Call Structure: This program is split in to three phases, each are four months long. I will be leading both monthly calls the first and fourth month of each phase. The second call of the second and third months of each phase will be group guided, I will be passively present as a liberatory safety net. This structure is aimed at providing a space that allows y’all to practice truly being in community and implementing liberatory relationship practices.
Who is in the room?
Sovereign is for people socialized female committed to their personal and collective liberation and willing to be honest about where they are, what they want, and what may have to change.
You do not need to arrive healed, certain, fearless, or completely clear.
You need curiosity, honesty, and a willingness to build something different.
Please note: Sovereign is open to everyone but as you sign up I may check in with y’all about where you are at in your current liberatory journey. Please don’t be surprised if you get a personal email from me before we start AND let that be the beginning of this work, practicing not letting it mean anything about you!
✨Sign up by September 30th for an extended payment plan!✨
Investment
The investment for Sovereign is $1,500/ month.
But. And. Also. Y’all know I believe liberation work should not reproduce the inequities it seeks to dismantle. SO there are limited sliding scale scholarship spots.
If you need a scholarship, please email the team at hello@accordingtoweeze.com and tell them what your monthly budget is. There is no need to prove hardship. No shame or hierarchy based on what you paid.
We are practicing different ways of being here, too.
If you are someone for whom more than $1,500/month is accessible and want to contribute to the scholarship fund to increase accessibility, please also reach out to the team as well.
What People Are Saying
Working with Weeze has been nothing short of transformative. As a one-on-one mentor and as the heart behind a powerful community space, she brings a level of presence, insight, and radical honesty that broke my brain open and made me see the world (and myself) differently.
Weeze has an extraordinary ability to hold space in a way that feels both deeply safe and profoundly challenging. She meets you exactly where you are, without judgment, and sees your full humanity - even in the moments you struggle to see it for yourself. Through our work together, she guided me through the messy process of unlearning, grieving, and rebuilding. She helped me name and unpack internalized biases I didn’t even realize I carried, and then empowered me to reframe them through a liberatory lens.
The community she cultivates is one of true reciprocity and care. It is a space where autonomy, safety, and truth-telling aren’t just values, but daily practices. Whether through journaling prompts that uncover the root of old wounds or by gently pushing me to hold stronger boundaries, Weeze has shown me what it means to live more aligned, more free, and more whole.
I recommend her mentorship and community spaces to anyone ready to do the work of decentering whiteness, reclaiming their power, and showing up more fully in their life and relationships.
J.B. - 5/20/2025“Louiza is medicine for the colonized soul. Her clarity cuts through dogmas and gets to the truth. Her energy empowers and uplifts and her inner wisdom pours forth in rivers of healing for the world. Louiza mirrors back honesty and she is a guiding light and a beacon of sanity in a [wild] world.”
D.H. - unknownWords that I associate are freedom, love, community, grounded-ness and integrity.
What I’d say to a friend… Weeze provides a framework for collective liberation and explains it so that it’s easy to grasp and slowly build it in as an integrated way of being - allowing space for joy, honoring your humanity and being physical/mental/emotional capacity.
Learning from her has changed the way I hold space for myself, allowed me to more easily navigate the duality and hypocrisy of having to live within our current systems, and aided me in creating much healthier boundaries. It’s also what has helped build me up to feel I’m worthy of more than I’ve dared to ask for, even now with things being an absolute dumpster fire.
So if you’re feeling like ok what now? How do I / we move forward from here? How do I life, hold space for joy or even just stay grounded with the cluster that is our current state, definitely check out her offerings and community spaces.
G.B. - 3/4/2025Ready to become the architect of your own life?
Are you building a life in service of the fully liberated, sovereign person you want to become or are you still organizing your life around everyone else's comfort?
Don't use the answer to judge yourself. Use it as information.
Because if something in you already knows the answer, you don't need another year of pretending you didn't hear it.
You don't have to know exactly who you are on the other side of this work.
You only have to know that a life organized primarily around obligation, conditioning, fear, performance, and survival is no longer enough.
You are allowed to want more.
More ease ✶ More honesty ✶ More agency ✶ More pleasure ✶ More integrity ✶ More room ✶ More you
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Come build a life that belongs to you.
W/ Tenderness,
Weeze